Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Seven Essential Teamwork Skills
Referred URL http://www.agileadvice.com/2009/10/12/linkstoagileinfo/seven-essential-teamwork-skills/
Active listening is a skill that allows a person to completely focus on the communication of another person including both verbal and non-verbal aspects. Active listening requires the ability to not think of your own responses until after a person has finished speaking. One simple way of doing this is to echo what a person is saying in your silent internal voice. When someone says “I think we should build a new gimbal on the widget”, you are saying exactly the same thing in your own mind. Active listening also requires that you request clarification, often by rephrasing what a person has said and asking if you have understood correctly.
Being able to frame and express questions effectively helps us understand and integrate knowledge into our own mental model of the world, or even to modify our mental model. Asking questions is easy. Asking good questions is much harder. We need to use an appropriate set of words and tone of voice so that we do not alienate or offend the recipient of the question. For example, asking “why did you do that?” will often put people on the defensive since they will assume that you mean you disagree with their actions. Instead, saying “I do not understand the reason you did that. Could you please explain it to me?” can be a much more gentle way of getting to the same information.
When presenting an idea or position, being able to logically support it is important to exploring the truth of it. This includes being able to share your assumptions or axioms, the data you are basing your argument upon, and the logical sequence of reasoning to reach your conclusion. Being able to avoid fallacious logical methods is also important.
Showing respect includes acknowledging the fundamental human value of the existence of your teammates, and being able to step back from your own understanding of the world to acknowledge the legitimate nature of the perspective that other people have. This does not mean that you have to let teammates get away with inappropriate behavior. In fact, respect for your teammates will allow you to support them in behaving in ways that are in alignment with their fundamental nobility as human beings.
Offering help and actually following through with real assistance are aspects of helping. When you suspect that a team member is struggling with something, you offer to help both verbally and with your actions. This can take the form of offering information, offering emotional support, offering to assist with problem-solving, or actually taking action to do an activity together. When we help someone, we share their burden.
Sharing our knowledge, time, skills or physical resources are all aspects of sharing. Sharing among team members is focused on those things which will help a team reach its goals. This is similar to helping except that it tends to be more of a transaction than an ongoing activity. The transaction is that you give a gift and then the other person uses that gift to meet their needs. Sharing does not require reciprocity. If you share something with another person, you should not expect that that person will return the gift at any time in the future.
It’s probably obvious, but in order to effectively be on a team, you need to participate! Participation itself is mostly obvious: do work with the other team members. However, there are also some less obvious aspects of it. You are not participating when the team is having a discussion, you find it boring, so you check your email. You are not participating when the team makes a decision and you abstain from helping to execute the decision because you disagree. You are not participating in a work team when you are mentally checked out because of a crisis at home.